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November 2007

November 30, 2007

NaBloPoMo is No Mo

Nablo_didit_sm Today is the last day of NaBloPoMo, the month where bloggers attempt to post every day, "until the internet explodes" as one clever person put it.  I finished, and managed to do a post a day, despite the fact that there were days when I literally felt like I had nothing to say.  Those were the days when YouTube came in handy.  Thank God for Wordless Wednesday, is all I can say. 

Overall, I think I learned a few things about my blogging self by doing this.  First, I'm not cut out to blog every day.  Once a  year for thirty days is about the best I can do.  I don't like writing with a deadline.  Sure, a review now and then is ok, but something every blessed day is really not my style.  I like to to take time when I write, revise, edit, and consider.  There were a few things I posted at 11:30 at night, just to make sure I had something up.  I shudder to read those again.

I think my family will be happy to have me back again, and not glued to my computer whenever I'm at home and supposed to be with them.  Frank was nice enough to write a post for me when he was in China, but I didn't post it because I thought that might be cheating, and because he didn't give me the pictures to go with it.  Alex was pretty patient during the whole thing, and occasionally would tell me, "Go work on your blog, Mom" when I would crab at him for one thing or another.

I didn't spend as much time visiting other NaBloPoMo blogs this year, and I didn't comment very often on the blogs I visit regularly.  I still read most of them, but didn't even attempt to comment every day like last year.  Something had to give, and that was it.

So, until next year, I'll be your ever-sporadic, mommy-political-travel blogger of miscellany.  Back to business as usual.

November 29, 2007

Perfect For You

Alexscout My son Alex went on his first Cub Scout sleepover two weeks ago.  The scouts went to stay overnight inside the fabulous Monterey Bay Aquarium, taking the phrase "sleeping with the fishes" to a whole new meaning.  We didn't think he was going to be able to go, since I had to work on Monday and his dad was away on a business trip in China.  At the last minute, the Cubmaster came to the rescue and volunteered to take Alex along with his family.

We hurried around the house, gathering up his gear for the sleepover--a flashlight, a sleeping bag, clean underwear, a toothbrush.  He had his allowance in his wallet, and I gave him an extra $5 so he could buy a souvenir or a snack if he needed to.  He was thrilled to be going and to be on his own.

He returned the next day, triumphant.  The sleepover was a lot of fun, though not much sleeping was done by the 30 or so 8-10 year old boys and parents there.  The fish evidently bang into the side of the glass at night when the lights go out, and someone at the Aquarium forgot to turn off the Muzak.  The noise and the excitement kept the boys up most of the night.  It was quite an adventure, and he loved every minute, despite being a little sleepy the next day.

He carried in with him a small bag from the Aquarium gift shop.  I figured he had bought a toy or a stuffed animal.  He handed it to me, and said, "I got you something!  Open it! Open it!"   He had a look of pure joy and excitement on his face.

I peeked inside the bag, and pulled out a beautiful little glass turtle, trimmed in gold that caught the light. 

"Wow!" I said as I hugged him, "That's beautiful!  I love it.  Thank you so much!"

He thought for a moment and said, "You know, they had different things, like a sea horse and a fish and a starfish.  But I knew a turtle would be perfect for you.  I knew a turtle would make you happiest of all."

He's right.  In all of our travels, we have gone to great lengths to see turtles on land and sea, from the nesting leatherbacks in Costa Rica and green sea turtles in Hawaii to the giant land tortoises in the Seychelles and Galapagos.  Turtles make me happy.  The fact that my son knew that and chose a gift for me based on that, meant more to me than probably any gift I've ever gotten.  I think the best gifts are those that are unexpected and show the giver knows something about you, expecially the small details. 

Thanks for the turtle, Alex.  And thanks for being the thoughtful and generous soul that you are. 

This post is part of the Parent Blogger Network's BlogBlast for Excitations .

November 28, 2007

Wordless Wednesday -- Greenland Window

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Illulissat, Greenland, 2007

November 27, 2007

Sandra Day O'Connor on Judicial Independence

Sandradayoconnor A few weeks ago, we had the opportunity to hear former Supreme Court Justice Sandra Day O'Connor on a panel of distinguished jurists discussing "Ruling the Law:  Judges, Legislators, and the Struggle for Judicial Independence."   She was visiting Stanford as part of her 55th law school reunion weekend, and participated in a panel discussion along with Ming Chin, Associate Justice of the Supreme Court of California, and Rebecca Kourlis, former Colorado Supreme Court Justice.  Dean Larry Kramer of Stanford Law School introduced the session and served as moderator.  Each of the panelists had an opportunity to speak for a few minutes and then there was a Q & A, followed by questions from the audience (which turned truly bizarre).

The Justices all commented on the disturbing trend of judicial backlash through legislative threats of impeachment and budget cuts for judges who are considered to be "activist judges."  Justice O'Connor was particularly disturbed by the notion of ballot measures calling for "jail for judges" who did not follow a particular political credo. 

Justice Chen noted that he thought that an "activist judge" was one who showed up for work every morning, since judges are charged with interpreting and enforcing the law.  He also noted that judges will never be popular because 50% of the people coming before them will leave unhappy with the verdict, since it has to go one way or the other.  He said that the key was to make sure that litigants felt they were treated respectfully and fairly, and felt that their cases were duly heard, regardless of the outcome.

Justice O'Connor felt that it was the duty of every judge to render verdicts impartially, and not be swayed by politics, but by the rule of law and precedent.  She thought that the system of checks and balances has served the country well, and in the history of the US, there have only been two instances in which the executive branch defied a Supreme Court ruling.  The first was in the case of Worcester vs. Georgia, in which the Supreme Court recognized the sovereignty of the Cherokee nation in Georgia.  Andrew Jackson famously said, "John Marshall has made his decision, now let him enforce it" and permitted Georgia to defy the court's order.  That defiance eventually led to the relocation of the Cherokee nation to Oklahoma in what has been called the Trail of Tears due to the hardship faced by those forced to relocate.

The Justices agreed that the courts should not decide cases based on public opinion or what is reported on CNN or Fox News.  The courts have to decide each case on its individual merits and is limited to the record presented before it.  They noted that the high courts have become increasingly contentious, with some bitter dissents being filed.

Justice Chen noted that he has great faith in the judicial system, and said that people who serve on juries are more likely to become involved in the political process and vote.  All of them agreed that the courts need to maintain affordability and access for everyone to be able to utilize the judicial system.

When  they took questions from the audience, it seemed as though some people thought this was their one and only chance to make a speech before the Supreme Court.  Instead of asking simple, direct questions, they tended to go on and on with some bizarre story or another.  One woman was shouted down by the crowd after speaking at length about the fact that parents whose children are removed from the home have no 6th Amendment right to effective assistance of counsel. 

The only time Justice O'Connor bristled a bit was being asked about vote on Bush v. Gore.  She pretty much said that there was precedent to support her decision and that she didn't want to talk about it anymore. 

I enjoyed this discussion very much, and was glad that I got to see these high court justices in person.  I have not always agreed with O'Connor's decisions, but I have enormous respect for her, particularly as a mother.  She took opted out of a successful career early on to care for her children, and was able to regain her position when women lawyers were not the norm.  She opted out most recently to care for her ailing husband.  It was a treat to hear her talk in this forum.

I have to say, I haven't thought that much about judicial independence since I stopped doing litigation about twenty years ago.  It is frightening to think that judges are being threatened with impeachment for doing their jobs and rendering decisions based on the individual cases before them.  I hope that this trend is one that reverses itself.

November 26, 2007

Barbie & Ken Explain It All To You

All I want for Christmas is for Nancy Nord to resign.  Is that so much to ask?

November 25, 2007

Brother, Can You Spare a $20?

We were driving home this afternoon, after shopping for some office supplies and replacing Alex's reading glasses.  As we were stopped at a red light, there was a man holding a sign that said, "Need Money.  Have cancer.  Can't work." 

The man was dressed in rags, and he was hunched over and looked like he should have been in a hospital.  I reached for my purse, about the time Frank said, "Do you think we should give him something?"

From the back seat, Alex said, "I think we should give him something."  I pulled out a couple of dollars, and Frank handed it to him.  He said, "Thank you.  I need to get some shelter because it is too cold to sleep outside."  We wished him good luck, and pulled forward.

"How much did you give him?" Alex asked.  I told him that I gave the many $2, and Alex shouted, "I cannot believe you gave him $2!  He needs shelter!  He is someone I care about and you only gave him two! dollars!" 

Frank asked him how much we should have given the man, and Alex said, "If I had $20, I'd give it to him.  I care about him.  I care about everyone in the world.  He has no home and no shelter.  We have a home and  shelter!  We should give him more."  He started crying, as if to say that he was terribly, terribly ashamed of having us for parents.

I like to think that I am a fairly generous person.  I give to charities and volunteer when I can for various things.  Today, my child let me know exactly how un-generous I am.  Maybe if we all felt like Alex and cared a little more for our fellow man, this man wouldn't need to sleep out in the cold. 

November 24, 2007

Book Review: New Clothes for New Year's Day

Newclothes The very nice people at Kane Miller Publishing sent me two books to review a while back, and I published a review of one of them, Yellow Umbrella here.  I loved the second book, New Clothes for New Year's Day by Hyun-joo Bae as well, but sort of forget to post my review.  I was going through some of my son's books today, and came across this lovely book, and thought that it  would make a great holiday gift for a child with a Korean heritage, or for any child or family interested in cultural traditions.

This beautifully illustrated book from South Korea chronicles a young girl's excitement over her family's Lunar New Year celebration.  As she dresses for the event, she shows each piece of her elaborate clothing, from the "rainbow-striped jacket" of the hanbok to the silk pouch on a string for luck.  The drawings start out simply, and build in their richness of design and detail as the little girl adds a new piece of clothing.  At the end, the author explains Korean New Year celebrations, including the ceremonial soup that makes everyone a year older.  It is gorgeous book, and one I hope to pass along to my grandchildren some day.

My family didn't celebrate Korean New Year in the traditional way, so this was new to me.  It's wonderful to find a book that explains some of our cultural traditions in a way that both my son and I can enjoy.

Interestingly, when my son interviewed my mother for a school project, he asked her what her favorite holiday memory was, and she said, "New Year's, because I got to wear pretty, new clothes."  Now I know what she was talking about. I think my mother would enjoy this book just as much as I did.

Disclosure:  I received a free copy of this book to review.  Cross-posted at Kimchi Mamas.

November 23, 2007

Coming Soon to an Airport Near You

Tech_puffersOn one of our trips this year, we had to go through one of the new Security machines that puffs air on the passenger as you walk through.  I'm not exactly sure what it's supposed to do, but I think it is able to detect whether or not you have explosive residue on your body. 

I had never seen one of these things before, so I said to Frank, "Let's check it out."  We got in the line headed to the machine.  We saw a businessman enter a little swinging door and stand inside a thing that looks like a giant white phone booth.  Suddenly, we heard a loud "POOF!" and a green light went on and he exited the other side.  I halfway expected that he would have disappeared after that "POOF!"

Frank was up next and leisurely strolled into the machine.  When it went "POOF!" he nearly jumped out of his skin.  The thing really startled him, and Alex and I thought this was hilarious.

Then it was my turn.  I tried to be cool about it so Alex wouldn't get scared, but the "POOF!" was much louder inside the thing that standing outside.  I jumped and nearly lost my glasses.  Alex thought this was the funniest thing since Spongbob Squarepants met David Hasselhoff.  The security guard was barely suppressing her giggles, so I laughed, too.

Alex went in prepared for the big poof, and stuck his fingers in his hears.  The cold air blast startled him, and he jumped, too, which, I have to admit, was pretty darn funny.

I'm pretty sure that the main reason for this new machine is not to catch terrorists, but to entertain bored security agents.  At least they get a giggle every time an unsuspecting tourist gets "POOFed".

If you're traveling with young kids, the thing might scare them due to the noise and the air jets, so don't get in this line unless you are told to do so.  I wouldn't volunteer for it again. 

November 22, 2007

Gourmet Macaroni & Cheese Recipe

Maccheese_2 Taking a page from the CityMama playbook, I'm posting a recipe today.  We went to some friends' home for Thanksgiving, and this is what I made, a recipe I adapted from The Barefoot Contessa (she puts tomatoes on top, but I passed on that) and a basic recipe I learned 20 years ago.

Gourmet Macaroni & Cheese

Kosher salt
Vegetable oil
1 pound rotini pasta (you can use elbow macaroni or others)
1 quart milk
8 tablespoons (1 stick) unsalted butter, divided into 6 + 2
1/2 cup all-purpose flour
10 ounces Gruyere cheese, grated (1 1/2 cups)
4 ounces Emmethaler cheese, grated (1 cup)
8 ounces extra-sharp Cheddar, grated (2 cups)
1/2 teaspoon black pepper
1/2 teaspoon ground nutmeg
Dash of seasoned salt
1 1/2 cups bread crumbs
1/2 cup grated Parmesan Cheese


Preheat oven to 375 degrees F.

Drizzle oil into a large pot of boiling salted water. Add the pasta and cook according to the directions on the package, 6 to 8 minute and drain.

While the pasta cooks, Make a white roux.  First, heat the milk in a small saucepan, but be sure it doesn't boil.  Melt 6 tablespoons of butter in a large (4-quart or so) pot and add the flour. Cook over low heat for 2 minutes, continuously stirring with a whisk. While whisking, add the hot milk and cook for a minute or two more, until thickened and smooth. Off the heat, add the Gruyere, Emmenthaler, and cheddar, seasoned salt, pepper, and nutmeg. It will be lumpy.  Add the cooked macaroni and stir. Pour into a 3-quart baking dish.

Melt the remaining butter, combine it with the fresh bread crumbs and the parmesan, and sprinkle on the top. Bake for 30 to 35 minutes, or until the sauce is bubbly and the crumbs on top are browned.

**You can use other cheeses if you prefer, but we like the nutty flavor of Emmethaler Swiss and pungency of Gruyere.  Plain old cheddar does just fine.

I learned how to make Mac & Cheese from my friend Julia's mom about 20 years ago.  I was a failure at Home Economics in high school.  During college, Julia and I went to her parents' home in New Jersey and Julia's mom unlocked the secrets of the basic white sauce/roux to me (don't cook it too high or too long and stir, stir, stir).  I am forever in her debt.

Maybe someday I'll share with you my Granny's recipe for Chicken & Dumplings.  That's the thing I miss most about being away from my family on Thanksgiving.  Maybe I'll make that this weekend.

Happy Thanksgiving!

November 21, 2007

Wordless Wednesday -- Glass Pumpkins

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Glass Pumpkin Patch in Palo Alto, 2007

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